1Cor 4.21 What will ye? shall I come unto you with a rod, or in love, and in the spirit of meekness?
2Cor 13.2-10 I told you before, and foretell you, as if I were present, the second time; and being absent now I write to them which heretofore have sinned, and to all other, that, if I come again, I will not spare: